I received a single-line message from a distant friend on Facebook, which read: "What r u doing now?" What am I doing now? I almost blurted out to say: "RIght now, I am breathing. Or am I?" But instead, I faltered and decided to remain silent. I was doing so much and so little, all at the same time. How could I respond to such a friendly, but misdirected question? I let the messenger go empty-handed.